Ladies!!! This is How to Know If You are a Side Chic

First things first, we all know the definition of a side chic right? I mean it’s no brainer! You know am just saying . Okay ?lets just get to it 

If you have no idea, a side chic is the chic the guy goes to, mostly for Sex:’ on the low low ... sneaky like that because he has his main girl that he spoils and treats like a queen. I have never really understood the concept of side chics. 

Men are such selfish beings…if you’re not happy with what your main girlfriend is giving you, why don’t you look for someone with the complete package? I can’t deal btw…

 The man you think is your bae, might just be someone else’s bae. Like for realzzz yo!

1. Communication

He prefers to text instead of calling. Matter of fact, you never talk every day. He has some days when he will communicate and others when he will ghost out on you. He also prefers that he does the calling and texting instead of you doing that.

2. He never leaves his phone lying around

He’d be damned to leave his phone lying around the house when you guys are together; and when he gets a call, he excuses himself to pick it. chances are, you have been saved as ‘my barber’ on the phone and he also doesn’t want you to see any evidence of messages from his main chic. A guy who truly loves you wouldn’t have anything to hide in his phone.

3. He never takes you out in public places

His idea of a date is the ever so cliched ‘Netflix & Chill’. He never treats you to coffee dates and dinners cause duuuuuuh he doesn’t want to be seen with you hunnie. If you’re lucky to be taken anywhere outdoorsy, it will be somewhere far far away, a vacation out of town or country. Maybe as a treat for being a really understanding side-chic? Aw! How thoughtful!

4. There’s no PDA

Public Display of Affection…eh, you only see that in the movies. He never holds your hand or kisses you in public. A guy who really loves you will want to show you off to the whole world like a damn trophy. That whole vibe about being ‘shy’ in public is pure and utter bullshi*t.

 

5. You have never met any of his friends/family

You have been dating for over eight months and you have never met any of his friends or family? Well yeah, that’s because you’re a secret.

6. He doesn’t add you on social media

The average human being on social media has friends, family and work mates following them on their different social media platforms and the last thing you want is ‘Natasha Barbie’ tagging you on a photo you did not want the world or your main girlfriend seeing. There have been cases where side chics upload a photo of their bae and the guy comments “delete this asap” lol…these things are serious. Please don’t embarrass yourself.

Okay my loves please know your worth!